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Is it better to visit my dogs or not see them during a long absence?

Updated on September 23rd, 2025

Pet's info: Dog | Mixed Breed Small (up to 22lb) | Female | spayed | 9 years and 5 months old | 18 lbs

We have 2 dogs. Bella is 7 and we’ve had her one year. Rocky is 3 and we’ve had him 7 months. Each one is a Chihuahua mix. I’m going to be moving out of the home for 4-6 months, and my wife will be caring for the dogs on her own. If I see them sporadically, will that confuse them or cause them trauma? Would it be better for them to not see me at all until I’m back home, or should I visit with them on occasion? I want to make this as easy for them as possible.

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Penelope Graben, DVM

Answered By Penelope Graben, DVM

Veterinarian

Published on June 4th, 2021

Hi there,

This is a very thoughtful question. I do not think this will cause Bella or Rocky any trauma. Dogs live in the moment and I think they will be happy to see you at any time or frequency.

I hope this helps. Thanks for using Petco Pet Education Center, formerly Petcoach.
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