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My son wants his dog back, but I'm attached. What's best for dog?

Updated on September 23rd, 2025

Pet's info: Dog | Mixed Breed Small (up to 22lb) | Female | unspayed | 6 years and 8 months old | 7 lbs

My son's dog, Jack Russell mix, is 6 years old. When my son moved out almost 3 years ago I continued to take care of the dog, we have become very close. Now my son wants the dog back to live with him. He took him for 6 weeks and the dog seems happy as he hasn't forgotten my son. I think the dog is better off in her original home of 6 years with me though (even though my son is also responsible and great with her). What would you advise? Marguerita Sampson

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Dr. Melanie, BVSc MS

Answered By Dr. Melanie, BVSc MS

Veterinarian

Published on December 26th, 2016

That is a very tough situation for you to be in! Moving to a new home can be stressful for a dog, but if Coco was there for six weeks without a problem, then that shows she can adjust. I would discuss honestly with your son that you would like to keep her, and let him know how close you've become with her over the last six years, and how much it would hurt you to have her live with him. In six years, you have developed a very deep bond with Coco, and you could discuss with your son that he could come and visit with her anytime he likes, and she could visit with him. I think it would be quite hard for you to give her up after all this time, and you need to be honest with your son about your feelings.
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