What Pet Should I Get? A Family Guide

Bringing a new pet into your life is exciting! But of course it’s important to remember that your decision is about a lot more than who has the cutest face or fluffiest tail. The best match happens when your family’s needs align with a pet’s personality and care requirements when you first ask, “What pet should I get?” The answer depends on your lifestyle and home environment and the animal’s needs. The more realistic you are about your lifestyle, space and time, the happier you and your new pet will be. This guide will help you think through four key factors—your (human) family, housing, health and activity level—before you bring home a new family member.

Step 1: Consider your living situation

Before you fall in love at first sight, take a clear-eyed look at your household:

• Family type and ages: Does your household include young children, teens or older adults? A family with small kids may do best with sturdy, patient pets like certain dog breeds or guinea pigs, while quieter homes might welcome a cat or aquarium. A rambunctious puppy may be too much to handle for young children or elderly family members, but adopting an older dog may be a good fit.
• Housing situation: Apartment living can make a large or high-energy dog a challenge, while rural homes offer more room to roam. Renters should always check pet policies first as many have restrictions on the type, quantity and size of pets that are allowed. Do not try to hide a dog or cat if they are not allowed in your lease; too many people have had to rehome beloved animals as a result. It’s also important to be familiar with local laws regarding pet parenthood as some areas have restrictions on the types of pets that may be owned, as well as breed restrictions.
• Health concerns: Allergies, mobility issues and immune sensitivities can guide what type of pet is best. Hypoallergenic breeds, reptiles and fish can be good options for families with allergies. Within the bird world, cockatiels and cockatoos are known for shedding a lot more dander than other species, so they are not the best choice for those with allergies. People with immune system concerns may not want to keep certain pets that are more prone to carrying zoonotic diseases.
• Activity level: Be honest about how much time and energy you have for exercise and play. An active family might enjoy hiking with a dog, while those who prefer quiet companionship may prefer a cat or small mammal.

These factors interact in important ways. A big, energetic dog in a small condo can lead to stress for everyone, just as a highly social bird in an empty home for extended periods may become lonely. (Some people get two pets, but there is a risk they will bond to each other instead of to the humans in the household, and some species may not enjoy cohabitating, even if social.)

Step 2: Review Pet Types

Most people start their search with dogs and cats in mind — and for good reason. But the right pet for your family might surprise you. Below is an honest, side-by-side look at every major pet type, including some you may not have considered, so you can match your lifestyle to the companion who will truly thrive with you.

Before you bring anyone home: Identify a veterinarian before adoption day — not after. Some pet types, including birds, reptiles and exotic small pets, require a specialist who may be harder to find than a general dog-and-cat practice. Petco's veterinary services can help bridge that gap if you don't already have a family vet lined up.

Quick Comparison: Pet Types at a Glance

Dogs

Dogs bring loyalty, affection and energy into a home, and for families wondering how to choose a pet for kids, many breeds are an excellent fit — because they thrive on family interaction and structured routines. The key is matching your child's energy level and your family's schedule to the right breed and size.

What to think through before saying yes:

• Space and size. Large breeds need room to move and may require more management and training if they'll regularly be around young children, elderly family members or anyone with limited mobility. Smaller, lower-energy breeds adapt more easily to apartments or condos and are less likely to accidentally knock someone over during play.
• Allergies. Some breeds shed less, but keep in mind that all breeds produce dander that can irritate sensitive family members. If allergies are a concern, research low-shedding breeds and spend time with the individual animal before committing.
• Time and training. Dogs need daily walks, playtime and grooming. Be honest about your schedule. Also consider whether you have the bandwidth to train a puppy from scratch or whether an adult dog — who will still need some training, of course — is a better fit for where you are right now.
• Financial readiness. Routine veterinary care, food, grooming and the possibility of unexpected medical expenses are real costs. Budget for them before you adopt.

Dogs are omnivores, so their nutritional needs are broader than you might expect — quality matters when it comes to what goes in the bowl https://www.aafco.org/consumers/understanding-pet-food/. Petco carries a wide range of dog food, leads, crates and grooming tools to help new dog parents start strong.

Cats

Independent yet genuinely affectionate, cats are well suited to apartment living and households with moderate activity levels. They're generally lower-maintenance than dogs: they need a clean litter box, regular feeding, daily playtime and enrichment — but not outdoor exercise or extensive training.

What to think through before saying yes:

• Supervision with young children. Families with young kids should supervise interactions and teach gentle handling — a rule that applies to every pet type, not just cats.
• Allergies. Some breeds produce more dander than others, so research carefully if anyone in your home is sensitive.
• Enrichment indoors. Cats should be kept indoors for their safety, but that means their environment needs to keep them mentally and physically engaged. Scratching posts, cat trees and interactive toys make a real difference.
• Breed personality varies more than you'd think. The Maine Coon, for example, is known for many "dog-like" traits — following family members around, enjoying water, greeting people at the door. That can sound perfect for a household that loves dog energy, but some families may prefer a more typical, independent cat temperament. Breed research pays off.

Cats are obligate carnivores, meaning animal-based protein isn't optional — it's essential to their health https://www.vet.cornell.edu/departments-centers-and-institutes/cornell-feline-health-center/health-information. Petco's cat food selection includes options formulated to meet those specific nutritional needs.

Small Pets (Small Mammals)

Ferrets (where permitted by local law), hamsters, guinea pigs and rats are sometimes called "pocket pets" or "critters," and they can be wonderful companions in smaller homes. They shed less than cats or dogs, but they still need regular habitat cleaning, social time and species-appropriate nutrition https://www.merckvetmanual.com/management-and-nutrition/nutrition-small-animals/nutritional-requirements-of-small-animals.

What to think through before saying yes:

• Age and handling ability. Small pets are best for older children or adults who can handle them gently and consistently. Younger children may unintentionally stress a small animal.
• Species needs vary widely. A ferret's care demands are much closer to a cat or dog — routine veterinary visits, vaccinations and a high level of daily interaction. A hamster, by contrast, is more independent and lower-touch. Know which end of that spectrum you're signing up for.
• Lifespan. Most small pets live anywhere from a few years to a little more than that, depending on species. This can make them a meaningful first-pet experience for the right household — but it also means your family should be prepared for that reality.

Petco's small pet section carries habitats, substrate and wholesome treats designed for these compact companions.

Birds

Birds — from parakeets and cockatiels to canaries and larger parrots — bring color, song and real personality into a home. They're intelligent and social, and the right species can be a deeply rewarding companion. But "bird" covers an enormous range of needs, so species selection matters enormously.

What to think through before saying yes:

• Interaction needs. Most birds need daily interaction to stay mentally healthy. They're best for households where someone is reliably home each day. Finches and canaries are the exception: they typically don't enjoy being handled by their people and are happiest with a same-species companion. A bonded pair of finches or canaries can be ideal for an elderly family member or anyone who prefers to enjoy a pet's presence without direct physical interaction.
• Habitat size. A habitat that's too small causes stress and can compromise a bird's health. Bigger is always better — don't undersize the enclosure.
• Noise. Some species are significantly louder than others. If you live in an apartment or have close neighbors, research the noise level of any species you're considering before bringing one home.
• Long-term commitment. Some parrots live for several decades. That's not a figure of speech — it's a genuine lifetime commitment that should factor into your decision.

Note on terminology: conures and cockatiels are medium-sized birds, not large. Size classification matters when selecting an appropriately sized habitat and diet.

Petco carries spacious bird habitats, toys and specialized diets for a wide range of bird species.

Fish

Fish offer tranquility and visual beauty with less daily hands-on interaction than most other pets — making them a strong fit for families who want the presence of a pet but have limited time, limited mobility or simply prefer a calmer dynamic.

What to think through before saying yes:

• Tank setup requires attention. Getting the environment right — tank size, water quality, filtration and cycling — takes research and patience upfront. The effort is front-loaded, but it's real.
• Freshwater or saltwater — decide early. These are two very different ecosystems with different equipment, species compatibility and care requirements. Make that decision before you start shopping.
• No allergies, no walks. Fish don't produce dander and don't need outdoor exercise, which makes them genuinely allergy-friendly for most households.
• Species and experience level should match. Some species are forgiving for beginners; others require precise water chemistry and years of experience. Be honest about where you're starting.

Petco's aquarium department carries fish tanks, filtration systems and knowledgeable staff to help you build a balanced, thriving aquatic environment.

Reptiles

Bearded dragons, iguanas, snakes and turtles are fascinating to observe and interact with, and they can be ideal companions for older children or adults who are ready for a more specialized care commitment.

What to think through before saying yes:

• Age-appropriate handling. Children should be old enough to handle reptiles carefully and — critically — to understand that thorough handwashing after every interaction is essential to prevent the spread of zoonotic disease https://www.aspca.org/pet-care/animal-poison-control. This is non-negotiable.
• Precise habitat requirements. Reptiles need specific terrarium setups with carefully controlled temperature and humidity. Lighting, heating, habitat size and substrate choices vary significantly by species — what works for a bearded dragon is not what a ball python needs.
• Allergy-friendly for most. Reptiles are generally a good option for allergy-prone households, though always consult your physician if you have specific concerns.
• Specialized veterinary care. Reptiles require a veterinarian experienced with exotic species. Identify that vet before you bring your reptile home.

Petco carries reptile enclosures, heat lamps and habitat decorations that make setting up a new home for your reptile more straightforward — even for first-time keepers.

Invertebrates

OK, a pet spider isn’t for everyone, but invertebrates such as tarantulas, hermit crabs and insects appeal to niche enthusiasts for good reason. Compact housing makes them suitable for small spaces, and their care demands are minimal compared to mammals and birds. They’re best for older children or adults who appreciate observing rather than cuddling. Petco stocks enclosures, substrate and specialty foods for these unique pets.

Not sure what pet to get yet? Petco has even more care sheets on each!

Step 3: Choosing the right fit

Now that you’ve explored your options, it’s time to match your lifestyle to your pet. Map your four key factors—family, housing, health and activity—against each pet type. Decide who will take primary responsibility for daily care. Note: While parents of young children can assign chores, remember that ultimately you will be responsible for caring for the pet. Consider long-term costs, time and emotional investment. Review a checklist or comparison table to clarify your priorities, then visit your local Petco or a reputable adoption center to meet potential matches. Remember that no pets are free and you need to be financially prepared for not only the purchase or adoption of the pet and initial supplies but also long-term care and vet bills. Taking time to choose thoughtfully helps ensure a rewarding experience—and happy family—for everyone.

Takeaways

The best pet for you is one whose needs fit your lifestyle, not one you must adapt your life around. Take time to research, plan and prepare for the responsibility ahead. This is especially important when choosing a pet for kids. Whether you bring home a loyal dog, curious cat or calming fish, your pet’s happiness will reflect your care and understanding. Explore Petco’s educational resources and product guides to help you give your new companion the best start possible.

Which Pet Is Right for You? A Quick-Match Guide

Use this matrix to see at a glance how the most popular pet types stack up across the four key factors—family fit, housing, health considerations and activity level. Every family is different, so treat this as a starting point, not a final answer, and always consult your veterinarian before bringing a new animal home.

How to read this table: Match the rows where your family type, housing column and health column all line up — that's your shortlist. Then use the activity level and lifespan columns to confirm you're ready for the long-term commitment.

Frequently Asked Questions

What is the best pet for a family with young children? Dogs (calm, mid-size breeds) and guinea pigs are frequently recommended for households with young children because both tend to tolerate gentle handling and thrive on routine interaction. Always supervise any child-pet interaction and teach children how to approach animals calmly. Consult your veterinarian about breed-specific temperament before adopting.

What pet is best for someone with allergies? Fish, reptiles and small pets like guinea pigs produce little to no airborne dander, making them among the more allergy-compatible choices. If you have your heart set on a cat or dog, research lower-dander breeds carefully — but understand that no pet is completely allergen-free. Birds such as cockatiels and cockatoos shed significantly more dander than parakeets and are generally not recommended for allergy-prone households. Talk with your allergist and your veterinarian before making a final decision.

What is the easiest pet to care for as a first-time pet parent? "Easy" depends on your lifestyle, but fish and guinea pigs are often cited as manageable starting points. Fish require consistent water quality maintenance but minimal daily handling. Guinea pigs are social, hardy and respond well to gentle routines. Both have lower overall care demands than dogs, cats or ferrets, though every pet deserves attentive, committed care.

How do I know if my apartment allows pets? Always review your lease and speak directly with your landlord or property manager before bringing any animal home. Many rentals restrict pet type, size or number. Attempting to conceal a pet can result in having to rehome the animal — an outcome that is stressful for both the pet and your family. Also check local ordinances, as some municipalities have breed-specific legislation or restrictions on exotic species.

Do reptiles and fish carry health risks for my family? Reptiles can carry Salmonella bacteria, so thorough handwashing after every handling session is essential — especially for households with young children, elderly family members or anyone with a compromised immune system. Fish tanks can harbor certain bacteria if water quality is neglected. Neither risk is a reason to avoid these pets entirely, but it is a reason to practice consistent hygiene. Speak with your veterinarian if anyone in your household has immune system concerns. https://www.aspca.org/pet-care/animal-poison-control

How much does it cost to care for a pet long-term? Costs vary widely by species, size and health status. Dogs and cats carry the highest ongoing expenses — routine veterinary visits, food, grooming and potential emergency care. Small pets and fish generally cost less month-to-month, but exotic species (ferrets, reptiles, parrots) often require specialist veterinary care that can be harder to find and more expensive. Budget for both routine and unexpected costs before you commit, and identify a veterinarian — including an exotic-animal specialist if needed — before bringing your new family member home.

Frequently Asked Questions

What is the cheapest pet to own? Fish and small pets like hamsters or guppies typically carry the lowest upfront and ongoing costs — a basic aquarium setup, food and bedding can run far less per month than dog or cat care. That said, even budget-friendly pets need proper nutrition and veterinary attention when illness arises, so factor in those potential costs before deciding.

What pet needs the least amount of care? Fish are often cited as one of the most low-maintenance options: no daily walks, no grooming appointments and no training sessions required. A properly cycled aquarium with a reliable filter can stay stable with weekly partial water changes and daily feeding. Small pets like hamsters are similarly independent, though they still need regular habitat cleaning and gentle daily handling to stay socialized.

What is the best pet for apartment living? Cats are a natural fit for apartment life — they don't need outdoor exercise, adapt well to smaller spaces and are generally quieter than dogs. Small-to-medium low-energy dog breeds (think Cavalier King Charles Spaniel or French Bulldog) can also thrive in apartments when given consistent daily walks. Fish and small pets like guinea pigs work well too, provided you can dedicate space for a proper aquarium or enclosure. Always confirm your lease allows pets — and the specific type — before bringing anyone home.

What is the best pet for a busy family? Cats and fish tend to suit busy households best. Cats are independent enough to entertain themselves during long workdays, while fish require only a few minutes of care daily once the aquarium is established. If your family has its heart set on a dog, consider an adult dog with a calmer temperament rather than a high-energy puppy, which demands significantly more time for training, socialization and exercise.

What pet is best for young children? Guinea pigs are widely recommended for families with young children — they're sturdy, rarely bite when handled gently and are large enough for small hands to hold safely. Certain dog breeds known for patience and even temperaments can also be wonderful, provided children are taught respectful handling from day one. Always supervise interactions between any pet and young children, regardless of species or breed.

Are there pets that are better for people with allergies? Reptiles and fish produce no dander and are among the most allergy-friendly options available. If your family prefers a furry companion, some dog and cat breeds shed less and may cause fewer reactions — though no breed is truly allergen-free, since dander comes from skin and saliva, not fur alone. Within the bird world, cockatiels and cockatoos are known to shed significantly more dander than species like parakeets, so they are generally not recommended for allergy-sensitive households. Consult your allergist and spend time with a specific animal before committing.

Pet Comparison at a Glance

Use this table as a starting point — every pet is an individual, and your veterinarian can help you think through health and care considerations specific to your household.

Lifespan and care estimates are general ranges. Consult your veterinarian for guidance specific to the breed or species you're considering.

This article was created with assistance from AI tools and reviewed for accuracy by Petco's content team.