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My female dog humps my arm. Is it play or dominance? How to stop?

Updated on September 23rd, 2025

Pet's info: Dog | Pomeranian | Female | 2 years and 8 months old | 12 lbs

My female dog mount my arm , I don't know if she is playing or if is sexual behavior, What I should I do to stop that behavior?

2 Answers

Most Helpful Answer

Answered By Angel Alvarado, LVT

Licensed Veterinary Technician

Published on January 19th, 2019

It may be playful behavior, but it can also be due to stress, boredom or dominance.
When she does it, offer a stern "No" and gently push her off your arm. Praise and reward her if she complies. If she persists, get up and move or place her in a separate room until she settles down. Be consistent.

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Answered By Dr. Dayna, DVM, CVA
Veterinarian, Certified Veterinary Acupuncturist
Published on November 7th, 2017
When a dog humps it is usually either a dominance issue or an excitement issue. If there is nothing exciting going on , such as you grabbing the leash for a walk etc., then she is likely displaying her dominance. Don’t let her do this. You may also want to keep her off the bed/ couch / etc. for a while so she does not have the opportunity to get to your arm. Also make her obey a command before feeding or petting her. All of these will subtly remind her that she is not the boss. I hope this helps! Thanks for using Pet Coach.
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