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My female cat (queen) is in heat but not cooperating with male cat (tom)
3 Answers
Answered By Laura E. McRae
Veterinary Technician
Published on January 1st, 2015
Answered By Laura Johnson VMD
Veterinarian
Published on March 24th, 2018
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It depends on what stage of her heat cycle she is in. She is only going to be receptive to a male for around 4-6 days. If it is early in her cycle or too late she will not allow the male cat to mate. If your cats are both novices they may just need more time to figure things out. If they do not know each other well, the male doesn't normally live with her or if the female is not comfortable with the male she may need time to get to know him. The good thing is that cats come back in to heat quickly so you have time.
Good luck!
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Answered By Dr. Melanie, BVSc MS
Veterinarian
Published on April 13th, 2017
If your queen is refusing to participate with Max, then she is no longer in heat. She could be receptive to him if she was in heat, and she would allow him to mate with her. Queens cycle fairly quickly this time of year, and she will be out of heat for around one to two weeks. I would keep them separate for a week, then see if she will be receptive to him after this week. I wouldn't put them together so she can get used to him. That's not needed for them to mate successfully, and it can lead to fights between them. Put him back with her in a week to see if she will allow him to mate.
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