My guard dog is aggressive to me, a new family member. How to bond?
This is a very difficult situation. Bruno is doing exactly what he's supposed to be doing, so it's going to be hard to win him over. I would recommend assuming that he is going to continue to be aggressive towards you and focus on taking precautions to prevent injury. If you've just returned in the last few days, it's possible he will warm up. But if it's been months, he's probably never going to accept you as a member of the family.
So, with that poor outline in mind, here are a few ideas:
- Never punish him or yell at him for guarding the house from you, because he is doing what he was trained/bred to do and confusion generally makes aggression worse
- Develop a protocol with your family so that Bruno doesn't see you coming or going, and avoid him inside the home as well
- Start working on developing a relationship with Bruno by tossing him treats without expecting anything in return
If he starts warming up to you, keep taking it slow, and always assume you're not one of his "inner circle" since you missed his socialization window.
Updated on September 23rd, 2025