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My cat nips, scratches, and won't let me brush her. What to do?

Updated on September 23rd, 2025

Pet's info: Cat | Domestic Shorthair | Female | spayed | 1 year and 1 month old

Thank you vet Andrea your advice is helpful. Just to comment she does nip me even for no reason so that’s why I feel the need to discipline she needs to know it’s not okay. How will I introduce new people if she gonna nip . Also I have the furminator for shorthair she just doesn’t want me to do anything but feed her . Give her nonstop treats and play with her . She won’t even let me mom brush her like that. She just scratches nonstop. Maybe it time to take her to vet again for these issues?

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Andrea M. Brodie, DVM

Answered By Andrea M. Brodie, DVM

Veterinarian

Published on March 20th, 2018

If you discipline a cat, she will just get more aggressive. You need to watch her closely and if it looks like she is getting excited, or starts flicking her tail, stop all interaction. That way she will learn slowly to not get so excited and the biting/nipping will get less over time. She is a cat. Cats are independent and have their own mind. Give her lots of lovings, don't bother introducing her to people, she will introduce herself. Pet her a lot, talk to her a lot. Give her lots of time to play. Every time she nips, immediately stop interacting with her. She will get it over time. Since she is a shorthaired kitty, she will not need daily brushing. Have the techs at the vet clip her nails, which will make the scratching less severe.
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  • Answered By Andrea M. Brodie, DVM

    Veterinarian

    Published on March 20th, 2018

    Some cats just hate being picked up and being brushed. Don't pick Catori up if she does not like it and get a cat comb. Pet and scratch your kitty when she is comfy on the couch or hops on your lap. Pet her until she starts purring, then take the comb and while you keep scratching her, GENTLY start combing her where the hair is NOT matted. Do this for a few seconds, then stop before she notices that you are combing her. Do this often, without force or forcing her. Over time she will let you brush or comb her. I have 5 cats and all five hate being picked up, one loves being brushed, three don;t mind being brushed, and one hates it. I can now comb him for about a minute, but if and when he has a lot of hair mats, he needs to be sedated and either shaved or combed out very thoroughly. If you do not pick her up she will not nip you. It is her way of telling you that she does not like it. Scruffing her causes even more stress to her and makes her loathe the brushing or combing even more.

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