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Pet's info: Cat | Domestic Longhair | Female | spayed | 4 years and 1 month old | 8.8 lbs
My 4yo female has lived with me nearly 2 years, very settled and affectionate to me and any humans who visit. Enjoys spending time outdoors in my and nearby gardens. My bro moved in with 17yo female totally blind and quite deaf. Old cat has settled in well, but my cat is v nervous, hiding under my bed and growling. Neither cat aggressive at all, how to get my resident cat to relax as she's under no threat?
2 Answers

Answered By Dr. Heidi DVM, CVA, CCRT, CVTP, CVSMT, CVCH
Veterinarian, Certified Veterinary Acupuncturist, Certified Canine Rehabilitation Practitioner
Published on June 6th, 2018
Answered By Dr. Heidi DVM, CVA, CCRT, CVTP, CVSMT, CVCH
Veterinarian, Certified Veterinary Acupuncturist, Certified Canine Rehabilitation Practitioner
Published on May 1st, 2018
Hi Nella,
I'm so sorry that Patches is such a nervous cat. I have a few suggestions for you to try to decrease stress. One option for decreasing stress is to add a Feliway Diffuser ( https://www.feliway.com ) to your house. This is a calming pheromone that will work for a month. I have also had luck with Rescue Remedy ( http://www.bachflower.com/rescue-remedy-pet/ ) which can be added to the water. You could also consider calming music specifically for cats ( http://throughadogsear.com/tace/through-a-cats-ear-1-music-for-calming/ ).
If Patches continues to be so nervous, it may be time to take him to your veterinarian for a physical exam and discussion about possible anti-anxiety medication.
Good luck! I hope that was helpful. Thanks for using PetCoach.
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