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How to help my dog who is grieving a loss and won't eat or drink?

Updated on September 23rd, 2025

Pet's info: Dog | Chihuahua | Male | unneutered | 6 lbs

My dad's dog, tuffy, is grieving as he realizes my dad isn't coming home. My dad passed on a little over a week ago and when we got tuffy home he went from room to room looking for him. He seemed fine the first few days but now is shaking and won't get up and move about. He won't eat and refuses treats. What do you do about a grieving dog? How to get them to eat and drink?

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Angel Alvarado, LVT

Answered By Angel Alvarado, LVT

Licensed Veterinary Technician

Published on September 9th, 2018

My condolences on the loss of your father. If you have an item that belonged to your dad, place it on Tuffy's bed or near him so he can get your dad's scent. You can try warming his food or mixing in a teaspoon of baby food to stimulate the appetite.
Try to get him engaged using play and exercises. A walk outside or a ride in the car may help to distract him. Taking him to your father's gravesite may also be of benefit. It could take time as pets do grieve over loss.
You may need to have him seen by your veterinarian for supportive care if he doesn't begin to eat or drink soon.
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