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My cat is bored and lonely when I'm away. How can I keep him happy?

Updated on September 23rd, 2025

Pet's info: Cat | Domestic Shorthair | Male | neutered | 1 year old

I have a 7-month-old cat (Gandalf). He stayed at my parents’ house for 1.5 weeks and has been with me in a studio for 2.5 weeks. I’m not home most of the day and he gets lonely and bored. The adoption agency suggested he live with another cat, but it’s expensive to own another cat in my apt. My parents have three cats. One of them (Kenya) doesn’t like other cats. So I’m thinking I could swap them. Problem is Kenya (6 yrs) is used to going outside whenever. Advice to make them both happy?

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Dr. Elizabeth

Answered By Dr. Elizabeth

Veterinarian

Published on January 21st, 2020

It sounds like this is not an easy situation. Some cats will not like being kept inside while others adjust easily. You won't know until you try. There are some things you can do which can benefit any cat (a bored cat and a cat adjusting to a new life style). Here is a great article about cat's instinctual needs:
https://www.petcoach.co/article/why-every-cat-needs-a-place-to-climb/

Use a Feliway diffuser, set aside 30 minutes a day for vigorous play (really get him moving) and switch the food to Royal Canin Calm. Try feeding him out of a food puzzle. Hide food for him to find. Provide a stand or resting place by a window so he can look outside.
You may also try clicker training him for positive behavior. Here is a link about training cats:
https://www.petcoach.co/article/can-i-train-my-cat/

Most cats response best to combination therapy. I hope this helps and please feel free to post any additional questions.
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  • Answered By Dr. Elizabeth

    Veterinarian

    Published on December 17th, 2019

    This behavior is not unusual for a kitten Hermit's age but you should try to address it. It's possible he is bored and so is inventing his own games.

    Try meeting his instinctual needs and providing some new stimulation. Here is a great article about cat's instinctual needs:
    https://www.petcoach.co/article/why-every-cat-needs-a-place-to-climb/

    Use a Feliway diffuser and set aside 30 minutes a day for vigorous play (really get him moving). During the play time, if he seems like he wants to play rough, try to encourage him to wrestle with a stuffed animal. Try feeding him out of a food puzzle. Hide food for him to find. Provide a stand or resting place by a window so he can look outside.

    You may also try clicker training him for positive behavior. Here is a link about training cats:
    https://www.petcoach.co/article/can-i-train-my-cat/

    Most cats response best to combination therapy. The veterinarian can also prescribe medications which can help with bad behaviors. I hope this helps and please feel free to post any additional questions.

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